01.09.08
Choosing The Right Bridesmaid Dresses
Tips on Choosing the Right Dresses for your Bridesmaids
Naturally, it’s the bride who will be the focus of attention on her wedding day, but it’s important for the bridesmaids to look gorgeous too. Choose something simple and not over decorated or detailed, but which will make your bridesmaids look elegant, sophisticated and feminine. It’s important to choose a dress style which will flatter everyone’s figure. This is never an easy task, but empire waists and A-line or princess skirts will tend to suit most shapes and sizes. If your bridesmaids have very different figure types and heights, and you think they might feel uncomfortable in matching dresses, a nice alternative is to choose the fabrics and colours, and allow each individual bridesmaid to choose her own dress style.
Classic Looks for Bridesmaids
Any kind of formal gown, semi-formal or evening dress can be chosen as a bridesmaids gown, so you have literally thousands of options. Satin, organza, chiffon, georgette, tulle, lace, brocades, and crepe are all classic fabrics for bridesmaid dresses. Whether you choose real silks and imported laces, or more economical alternatives will depend on your budget. It’s traditional to choose a one-piece dress or gown, but separates are definitely an option. Mixing and matching separate blouses and skirts makes it easier to find a style which suits each individual bridesmaid.
You should think about the time of year you plan to hold the wedding, and how this will affect your gown choices. Choose lighter fabrics for summer, and a sleeveless or even a strapless dress style. If your wedding is planned for a cooler time in the year, long skirts and sleeves are best, or include a shawl or wrap as part of the outfit. Alot of churches require that ladies shoulders are covered, o if marrying abroad check with the priest or you wedding planner about approriate dress.
It’s a nice idea to choose your colours according to the time of year also. Fresh, soft colours are lovely for spring and summer; golds, copper tones and rusty reds for autumn, and deep marine blues, teal green, deep burgundies and plums, or platinum shades for winter. Choose colours which will match the flowers which are in bloom at the time of year, so your gowns will tone in nicely with the bouquets. Discussing your colour ideas with your favourite florist will make the job of choosing colours much easier. For a very sophisticated, formal look, black or black and white never goes out of style. For a more romantic look, use white or a solid colour overlaid with black lace, either as a feature of the dress itself, or as a shawl or wrap. Soft, pretty pastel shades like lilac, powder pink, cream, platinum and eggshell blue are always popular colours for bridesmaid dresses, because they always look good together with the white or ivory shade of the bridal gown.
Adding dramatic colour accents in the bouquets creates a very attractive look for the wedding party as a whole. Accessories for Bridesmaids The simplest look will tend to work best, so accessories should best be kept to a minimum. Often a simple pair of earrings or necklace is all the jewellery you’ll need. It’s traditional for the bride to give the bridesmaids their jewellery as a gift, which is a lovely idea. For a very formal look, shawls, gloves and even small tiaras are always appropriate as bridesmaids’ accessories.
Keep comfort as well as style in mind when you choose shoes for your bridesmaids. Very high heels may be uncomfortable to stand in for any period of time. Also consider the fact that the bridesmaids will most likely be wearing the shoes for the wedding ceremony and the reception, so choose shoes which will be comfortable to wear all day, then dance away the night.
Wedding Budget – Extravagant or Modest?
If you’re the kind of person that’s been dreaming of your wedding since you were born, then you may want to have all the things that a royal family may have. However, you will need to have a considerably larger budget. Symphonies and gold carriages are not cheap. Sit down with your soon-to-be spouse and figure out what is really important to you. Or you may want to each write out what your idea of the perfect wedding is, and then compare notes. You will probably find that many things match. And for those things that don’t, you will need to figure out if they’re necessary and something that you both want.
It seems that many couples split right down the middle in terms of a budget. One person is usually more lax, while the other tends to count every penny. Use this to your advantage. After you’ve figured out what kinds of things you’re including in the budget, then you can determine if there are inexpensive ways to accomplish them. This is your first lesson in compromise. Some things will work, others will not.
Who’s paying? When it comes to the bill, most of the times, it’s the couple or the bride’s family will be writing the cheques, but it can be any combination of relatives. When you’re starting to make out your budget, you want to figure out who may be paying to see what kind of limits you need to impose on your plans. Although it may be fun to plan out the wedding first and ask for the dough, you may find that your ideas don’t quite match those with the cheque book. So the best advice in planning out your detailed budget is to figure out what things you simply can not imagine your wedding day without. Then figure out how much money you are able to spend (thinking carefully upon extending your finances into debt) and see what else you can fit in. Weddings have a funny way of working themselves out and being beautiful without a lot of drama, so relax, this part really isn’t that bad.
Wedding Reception Venue
As you look for your wedding reception venue, be sure it is fitting theme for your wedding. Does it fit the theme of your wedding? There are an infinite number of possibilities for your wedding reception site. Where you get married should represent your style; it should fit into the image you had envisioned yourself since the first day you started planning your wedding. As you look for your wedding reception venue, be sure it is fitting theme for your wedding. Does it fit the theme of your wedding?
No one is expecting your to create a Broadway show production, but be sure the location accommodates the overall theme and fee of your wedding – whether it be a location, a flower. The location of you wedding reception needs to reflect the style and personality of the bride and groom. In addition, it needs to be an enjoyable, memorable experience for the wedding guests.Selecting a reception site will depend on its availability, price, location to the wedding ceremony site and its capacity.
Having your ceremony and reception in the same location can save you money and stress! One of the most important factors to consider is capacity. If you can’t seat all you guest, it doesn’t matter how much you want a location. Only visit sites that can accommodate the number of guest you plan to invite. You should also be flexible when determining your wedding date.
Chances are the venue you like is already booked for your date, but you may be able to secure it for following week. If you really like the site, it may be worth the wait? Find out how they charge for their services. Most hotels and restaurants charge per person where a flat fee is charged for each guest, including food, beverages, tables, chairs, linens, etc. Other venues such as clubhouses, parks charge you based on a period of time. Most importantly you should feel comfortable at your own reception. Follow family traditions if those are important to you, but not because you feel pressured by family or guest expectations.
Making Your Bouquet Last
Keeping It Cool
Most of the bouquets and other floral arrangements will come in either vases or small plastic bags of water. These are designed to keep them moist and pert until the start of the wedding. And while keeping them in these packages will help the most for keeping your flowers from wilting, there are other ways to spruce them up. If you should get flowers that aren’t as perky, then you can run the ends of the bouquets under cold water as you cut the ends at an angle. This will help to create new channels for the water to flow through. Place the bouquets back into their original water and they should become straighter and livelier within an hour or so. What you may read in some books is that you can use ice cubes in the water to help you make the flowers look better, but this only freezes the routes of water to the flower, and can cause even more harm to a sagging bouquet. If you decide to take outdoor pictures, they you can take the bouquets out of the water, dry them off with a paper towel and stand and pose. Once you are back inside, you will want to put the flowers back into the water once more, to make sure that they get the most amount of water they can before the ceremony.
After the fact If you’re looking to preserve your bouquet, here are a few tips.
Although many florists can help you with preserving the bride’s bouquet, you can also do it yourself. One route is to hang the bouquet upside down as soon as you can after the wedding. This helps the flowers to keep their original shape as they air dry. The air drying process will take a while, so don’t worry if you’re still waiting on them to dry a month later. Another way to preserve bouquets is to spray them with hair spray immediately following the wedding and hang them upside down. This creates a sort of layer of protection around the petals and can shield the flowers from losing their original shape.
The Wedding Planner can arrange for your wedding bouquet to be freeze dried which will keep it looking on the day fresh for decades to come. Contact rosie@theweddingplanner.ie to find out more.